katiek0417 wrote:Jody, I'm pretty sure after the first fight, I would have been very cautious allowing my dogs out again - ESPECIALLY if they were out of my sight.
I understand that you'd like for them to be out on the couch grooming each other - but, at this time, I think you'd be safer doing a crate and rotate. And if they are out together, they must be under strict supervision (although, like I said, after the first fight, I wouldn't be allowing them out together anymore).
Also, simply playing in the yard with Dar may not be enough - can you take him for a walk or to a park to play ball with him? I have found that no matter how much my dogs are played with in the yard, they get much more tired out when they are out of their "comfort zone."
Whatever you do, Dar and Macy must BOTH get the same amount of attention from you - even if it's separately!
katiek0417 wrote:Have you tried a gentle leader for walking? You need to do things to keep Dar's brain working...he needs to be mentally tired - which is as important as physical tiredness.
Have you been training with him? Does he have food drive? Can you hide food and let him search for it?
It's nice when your dogs get along...trust me, I know...but, and this is just my opinion, by continuing to allow them to be out together, you're almost asking for a MAJOR fight...which could end in severe injuries...or worse...
madremissy wrote:Jody, First thing is: Breathe.
I also thought that our dogs would live in "bliss" and then when they started to have "discussions" I felt like a terrible owner. I felt like I was not doing the right things. But don't feel that way. Gotty and Kinzyl got along great until this past year. Something about the kitchen area set them off. Well now we take every precaution to keep them out of the house together. Gotty does stay upstairs in the apartment with Josh and Brit, but when he comes down we just don't let them together.
Now outside they play fine but someone is always standing right there with them.
It is Ok, it can be managed.
Also, it took me a long time to figure out the best way to "tire" Kinzyl out. Gotty loves the spring pole and chasing the ball. Kinzyl on the other hand loves to search for stuff. Like Katrina said, she needed her mind to be busy and feel like she had job. Now we go for a walk everyday and she thinks she is searching for something. Or I take her to the feild and hide something and let her search for it.
It can be done. Don't get discouraged.
ArtGypsy wrote:
-----------Jody,,,,,,who learned some devastating details of her daughter's death this evening, and Can't stop crying.............
katiek0417 wrote:ArtGypsy wrote:
-----------Jody,,,,,,who learned some devastating details of her daughter's death this evening, and Can't stop crying.............
I'm sorry....if you ever need to talk, everyone on PBT is here for each other...ALWAYS
ArtGypsy wrote:I just don't know how to get through all this..........
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