On February 02 2008, 1:07 AM, Jenny wrote:Thats hard
I know its hard to not worry and want to know about the people..I would really have to trust the folks I worked with in that situation..
I coordinated a transport once for a Cane Corso pup shelter to foster .. when the Org's new person in charge adopted the pup out several months later the foster mom was flipping out because the Org
did not want her to do the home visit, drive the dog to the next state over to the new home.. etc..she was very attached to the dog and just sick with worry. She was seriously considering hiding the dog. It was a horrible ugly mess and the foster finally got her way and got to deliver the dog to the new home..and it ended well.
yeah well in my situation, i found the pup at the shelter, took her on as a foster thru the local shelter... the shelter was having major problems and not keeping a vet on staff more than a month at a time, and 3 or 4 months in a row the tx for demodex mange changed drastically...
then the new vet decided that the dog had skin allergies, and therefore was "unadoptable" and wanted to put the pup to sleep...
I said no, took the dog put her in my van, refused to open it and let her out, and took her home, then went and found out of the pits.... to help me with this...
they had a woman who became phoenix's angel... paying for her treatments, and her spay, and sending her care packages.....
Cyd had told me that i'd have the opportunity to pick her forever family, and do their home visit, and deliever her if i wanted to.
I did want to... i was attached, but on the other hand totally ok with letting her go.... we were in a crate and rotate situation here... and that was more than i'd bargained for....
But... cyd was not the adoption coordinator, and suddenly they told me that they had someone interested, i said ok when and where...
they told me to bring her to cyd... and cyd would bring her to meet the people..... that the pup might not behave well with new people... if i was there...
i didn't agree, but did bring her to cyd's cyd wanted to also see how she would do with some other dogs, ie not mine so cyd had her for a few days, then brought her to meet this family, and then was supposed to call me and have me go meet the family and all that...
well instead i got a call about 11pm.... saying that she was now in her forever home in ct.
I was not even given contact info to be able to fwd her coat, and toys vaccination records....