So I show my DH and say "how about this dog" and he says OK (first mistake) so they make arrangments to get Sam to us since they weren't that close. When I talked to the rescue people they knew we had 3 little girls and another dog, but I failed to ask many questions at all and certainly NONE of the right ones. (NOT the brightest bulb in the box I'm not) We pick Sam up and it's obvious she's got pit in her. As time goes on I become fairly certain that she's a straight up APBT and not much of a mix (just a guess though) based on pics and the vets comments when I took Sam in. We've had some aggression issues but only in relation to other dogs - which upon reading I've discovered is 'normal' and not necessarily a sign that she's a threat to humans. Which leads me around to the begining round of questions.. (sorry it took me so long only trying to give some history in case it's helpful)
I put Sam in OB classes - made another mistake there because these people were not well versed in bully breeds. I think they are great w/ the likes of retrievers and goldens but not so sure their tactics are all that effective. On our last day of class Sam got aggitated w/ another dog that was barking and begain to get aggressive w/ the other dog and when I attempted to put her into the 'down' position she refused to go so the trainer takes over and attempts to not only force her into the down position but into the 'submissive' position (on her back) which she rarely does at any time much less a stressful time and she FREAKED. Pissed all over the place and ended up biting the guy. I of course became a basket case because I'm upset that she bit him (not AT her, just upset if that makes sense) and upset cause I'm not sure that is what should have happened but I know nothing about this stuff man - that's why I'm paying him right?!
1. How do I properly handle Sam in a situation where she becomes aggressive w/ another dog?
2. How do I find a good trainer, as in what do I look for?
I belong to another board which I love - but there don't 'seem' to be many pit owners (could be wrong though still learning) and so I was directed here w/ the thought that maybe you wonderful people could give me some further pointers. I apologize for taking up so much 'space' - if u've hung w/ me this long I really appreciate it - you're a doll!
Wanted to edit it to add the OP's on the other board have been very helpful just looking for any additional advice you might have. Wanna give credit where credit is due...

