Good to see you here Geneia.
I have defended him to people before too. But it was never about stuff as serious as this. I didn't know then what I know now.
And you can tell
so much by meeting someone. My defense of him before was based on the 'virtual Eric'. The one that comes though on his website and on his forum. That Eric seems cool. Eric in person? Ehh, I was less than impressed...
I met Eric on Saturday at the MA puppy party, and the way that party was so poorly organized was very telling to me.
Another thing that bothered me was the treatment of
adult foster Victor. He spent the ENTIRE time in his crate. It really bothered me how he was completely ignored by Eric. His sad little eyes followed Eric around the room the entire day, and not once did Eric acknowledge him. NOT ONCE did he come over to pet him.
I was preparing the vaccines on top of his crate, and he looked up at me too. I stopped frequently to pet him (through the bars, I was told not to take him out because he is "very strong" and "we don't want him to get loose"). You think
he is strong? You've obviously never met Brutus!! But I digress...
I tried many times to get Victor to wag his tail for me and get excited to see me, but he turned his head away. He only had eyes for Eric...
I didn't even see them take Victor out to go to the bathroom all day. To be fair, I suppose it is
possible that someone did while I was in the back room with the puppies. Melanie, did you see this?
Now I understand that Eric was busy. He had puppies to sell, errr... ADOPT OUT, and he was busy making the rounds and taking pics. But come on, it takes 2 friggin seconds to say "Hi Victor!" and stick your fingers in at him. That would have been something at least...
The only time Victor came out of his crate was for his photo session. All of the pics on the Victor page I linked you to above were taken in the span of 60 seconds. (You can tell because the people in the background are in almost the exact same position). And you can tell how happy he is to be out of the crate. He kept putting his paw on Jaime and barking at her, BEGGING for some attention finally!! But once the pics were done, he got shoved back in his crate.
Yet on that webpage Eric says "I had the pleasure of socializing dear aVictor this past weekend at a puppy party in Mass." THAT is socialization to you?? No wonder dogs adopted from you are unstable!!
"Victor tagged along for the exposure, to show potential puppy parents what a GREAT boy he is, and to get some wags and hugs from everyone". Hugs huh? I didn't see any of those. And no wags either. Victor was not introduced to any other dogs at this party.
And to top it all off, when Melanie and I first arrived we asked who Victor was (I don't think adult fosters usually come to these things, except for the mothers of the pups). Eric's response was "Oh, that's Victor. He's kind of a handful and my dad wants him out of the house for a while." NO talk of this wonderful exposure and socialization opportunity...
Is this animal abuse? Not really. Is it wrong? Is it inappropriate behavior from someone who claims to love these dogs so much? I think so. And it makes me very very sad...
I had been at this puppy party for all of 15 seconds when he let out the statement above, and it was not said with fondness either. This was Red Flag #1 to me...
~Lindsay~